When Others Just Don’t Get It

When Others Just Don’t Get It

Those of us who have separated from an abuser often have to deal with questions from people who just don't get it. They are sometimes what we call "flying monkeys" - people who do the bidding of the abuser. But there may be others who are just uneducated about abuse...

What is a Flying Monkey?

What is a Flying Monkey?

The origin of flying monkeys is found in The Wizard of Oz. These scary creatures did the Wicked Witch's bidding. In recent years, the term flying monkeys has come to identify people that do the bidding of abusers. This might be someone who tells the abuser's partner...

Do You Over-Function?

Do You Over-Function?

Do you over-function in your relationships? Many of us do. What do I mean by over-functioning? Before I describe over-functioning, let me describe someone who is functioning optimally. (I found these descriptions in a blog by Dr. Will Meek.) Optimal Functioning...

Surviving the Holidays

Surviving the Holidays

Surviving the Holidays The holidays are supposed to be joyful and fun-filled. Sometimes they are, but often that is not our experience. The holidays can be especially painful for you if you are depressed, are mourning a loved one, or have recently lost your job. Note:...

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