How to Deal with Depression
Many abuse survivors deal with depression. You don’t have to stay in that place. Here are some things you can do to feel better.
Women Can’t Speak in Church, Right? Ah…WRONG!
Have you believed that the bible says women are not to speak and teach in church? A friend of mine recently told me of a sermon on this topic. This friend knows my heart for abuse victims (especially women) in the church, and how misunderstanding the intent of certain...
Family Courts – Protecting Children?
Sadly, family courts are failing in their mission of protecting at-risk children. Why? What can be done?
How Can I Get My Abuser to Change?
While we cannot make another person change, they will sometimes decide on their own to change when their abuse no longer works for them.
Jesus’ Attitude Toward Women – Part 2
Jesus risked censor by teaching women. He also allowed women to be his disciples, giving them the message of his resurrection before his apostles.
Jesus’ Attitude Toward Women
Though Jesus lived in a very patriarchal culture, he went out of his way to show compassion to women, and even lauded their actions over those of male leaders.
How SHOULD the Church Respond to Abuse?
Diane Langberg points out that abuse is not a one-time sin, but a cancer of the soul which is not cured by some tears and a few words. Church-protect your flock.
Can EMDR Really Heal Trauma?
EMDR can be used to heal the trauma associated with domestic violence. It works quickly and the survivor does not need to talk about their painful memories.
Is the Church Waking Up?
Like many of you, I turned to my church for help when I was being abused. Sadly, my church, just like many of yours, failed me. Many of us were We are told to try harder, forgive our abusers, or be a better wife/husband. Our abusers were rarely held accountable for...
Techniques to Help Anxiety and Dissociation
When we feel anxious, or are separated from our bodies, deep breathing and grounding techniques help us return to a state of calm.